I am a 41 year old male and I must admit had always been an anti tattoo & piercing guy until a few months ago when my work pal had her belly button pierced as well as having a sexy little tattoo put above it. I could easily tell that she was really proud of it and loved showing it off to me & all. I think it looked really great in fact I liked it so much that I now would love to have mine pierced as well as my left nipple so I suggested this to my mate who said I should just go for it and that they would look really wicked. However at my age I am a bit reluctant as it might look a bit girlie as you hardly see any guys with their navels pierced, it is also probaly a young mans thing to do if anything plus on top of this my missus is not a big fan of piercings & tats ! What should I do ? I want to hear your views please,please,please—-