Hi there.

First off, sorry if this is in the wrong place, or if this isn’t what these forums are for. I figured I’d turn to people who might have the experience to set me on the right track.

I’ve wanted a tattoo for quite a while now, but found myself absolutely incapable of deciding on something prevalent enough in my life to be tattooed on my body. So I figured, if it wasn’t obvious to me, I shouldn’t be getting the tattoo. I’d rather avoid those regrets.

However, after a lot of thinking, I know what I’d like. I’ve decided on a general idea; one that I feel has defined much of who I am, and has gotten me to where I am now. That idea is a struggle and subsequent release of anger.

All my life, I’ve battled to change my negative perception of people. To become a normal social animal and accept others for who and what they are; and though I’ve got a long way to go, I definitely feel I’ve improved. I’ve moved to a new town and met a lot of great people. It’s a fresh start in a big way!

So my question to you- if you’re willing to help- is what should I get? Are there any symbols, phrases, icons, etc. relating to letting go of anger? The absence of hate? A struggle with hatred?

I think I’d like a black and white shoulder piece, and any information would help. This will be my first (and likely only) tattoo.

Thanks guys. 🙂