ive stretched my lobe to 10 but my lobes thick and i have bought all different screw on plugs and tunnels anf the thread barely sticks out the back and when I screw the back ring on its tight and squishes my ear. Ive tried the squishy ones but i can never get them in. Is there any other things i can use to put in my ear because i dont want to keep the taper in longer than i have to.

all my other smaller plugs fit when i was at a smaller size which is strange.