@Buttwheat: I like the idea of a wilted rose.., I will look more into designs.
You are right the rose by its self may not look right.

I was going to have a flower, with the date.
Not married, no other children

@Adler: you do raise good point. Without going into too much detail. I did some stupid things. Made some bad decisions, leading up to the unfortunate situation I was not myself.
And feel like I have paid a huge price.

Thanks for the infor so far.