Thanks for the replies, I like a few of the ideas from the guy above and I may take some in to consideration when choosing.

In reply to the first post – I used to be a very insecure person, It kinda got to the point where I would fear in some weird way of stepping outside the house. I never thought much of myself at all. I had a partner of 4 years and it started getting very serious, one day I thought to myself that I need to change, and with that change I realised I had to sacrifice my ‘comfort’ zone of having my girlfriend, I knew she wasn’t the one and that I wanted to experience more things in life but I wasn’t going to do this unless I pushed myself.

When I made that push and made that decision, my life changed since. I’m a very confident person and I am moving along in life. Experiencing new things.

I guess it’s like I used to keep myself trapped away from normal life and now I have no fear of anything.

I have thought about getting kanji, one idea is the devotion symbol with lyrics from my favourite band that fit how I feel ‘seize the day or die, Regretting the time you lost’

My other idea is the kanji for strength, and with lyrics ‘I feel my memories fade with time’.