Being a female myself, I can tell you that the drummers and bassists of bands get the most attention from females, most females will tell you that too. Followed by guitarists and vocalists.
There will always be girls that are into guys in a band, but they don’t understand what comes with being with a guy who is in a band and wants to make music his career. There will be times when she will have to be left behind, or not made the priority because in some instances the band has to come first.
Although, there are some girls who just want to be ‘seen’ with guys in bands and if you’re into that, well then that’s your choice.