check out stretchyourears.com for cheaters and real plugs wicked site for them

ya about 2 weeks to heal up so after then i suppose lot of good advice from this blog http://www.stretchyourears.com/blog they also have an online store great spot for all your piercing needs mate

theres nothing wrong with them there obviously not as cool as the real thing but most people cant because of work so thats life aint it