@buttwheat 140955 wrote:

I don’t think getting a tattoo symbolizing your moms bad life decisions is a good idea.

Get a Japanese koi swimming upstream

Sam I Am your flow chart is cute it made me laugh a little. And buttwheat where a lot are lost is see yes they were all my mothers mistakes and hardships. But me being her child is being with her I was exposed to it also. So even though they were her hard times they became mine. I am a very shy woman with very little people skills. And as a child I was much worse. So the constant moving and new schools and new dads were very scary and hard for me to deal with. And then we didn’t live on base cause of my mom having me so we lived in low income sections of towns. I was also exposed to so much more than any child my age should have been exposed to. And the koi sounds so beautiful. Thank you buttwheat.