You can get a subscription to a tattoo design membership site –
some of these have direct access to tattoo design artists and you can get a customized tattoo design that will fit your requirements

Very nice cat and flower designs – these are very simple and elegant

Have you considered reading a bit about mythology? there are many characters (like in Greek mythology) that can have very impressing characters,
so you might be able to find a charecter with the traits you are looking for

The bottle of Vicodine might require some extra thought. There are other elements that represent a home much more than that, maybe elements from your childhood or a favorite food.

I would add an eye to the dragon, and a few light color shades, so the rose and dragon won’t have the same exact colors

Looks really good! I support your decision to add some golden shades to the piece, I think it will really add depth to it.

I’d go and find someone who has experience with these kinds of tattoo designs and have him draw the final design… this way you don’t leave any room for error for your tattoo artist.

The quality of the work is good, and everyone is entitled to his or her opinions regarding tribals…