Yes, it hurts.

And honestly, I think it hurt worse than getting my tattoo. Plus it’s a pain in the rear because you have to keep it really clean other wise it will get infected and cause a WHOLE other set of problems and even leave you with a deformed ear. If your going to do it, get it PROFESSIONALLY done, keep the area very clean, DON’T TOUCH IT until it heals, and it will take a few months and maybe even a full year to heal depending on your body’s reaction.

Having the name of your spouse tattooed on you (in my opinion) is notorious for being bad luck and unoriginal. I think though that your idea about some sort of symbolism is a much better choice. Since I don’t know you I can’t really make a suggestion other than think of something that means a lot to the both of you, maybe you want to get a tattoo representing a special memory you shared, an important place you have both traveled to, or even something that symbolizes your love.

I think black and grey would look absolutely wicked :]

Bottom line, I think you should do what you want to do. I can understand why your dad is saying that because he just wants to make sure that this is something that you really want, he loves you and wants you to make the best decision. Tattoos are a big investment, and you really do need to be 100% sure if you want to get one because it will be on your body for the rest of your life.

If you do decide to go smaller for your first one be cautious because a lot of people make the mistake of getting a really small tattoo in a larger area and it doesn’t really look right.

I also think you should take time and look around at different tattoo artists in your area and ask them for their opinion.

I hope this helped!

I actually think it might be neat to have the pair of eyes on the back of your neck or maybe even between your shoulder blades :]